Oh yes, they've all got their own little personalities that take up so much room in your heart!
It's true that female cats are generally more aloof than males. My friend's cat is a great example of this. He's had her for a decade now and she still hates me with a passion from the moment she first set eyes on me, bless. I'm talking about hissing and scratching me if I try to touch her. Feeding her made no difference. She's a complete no go area, lol.
She loves catnip, but when I offered her some, she attacked me!